Finland is perhaps the world’s most feminist country. Our president is a woman, over half or the ministers in the cabinet are women (highest in the world) and every woman works and gets government sponsored childcare. Women are more often educated than men and are very vocal in protecting and advancing their rights. Women’s rights have extended so far that a men’s rights movement has sprung up!
Despite the position women hold in the Finnish society, many complain. Women count the pennies they are losing, because men get a “higher” salary. Women whine that there are still more male executives than female. Shockingly, still more women take maternity leave then men paternity leave! The victory march of feminists is far from over, they exclaim.
As a Finnish woman I can do what ever the heck I want to. And it pisses me off that women still complain here about not being equal, when the world is full of women who actually are ostracized and discriminated against.
A friend who works with a native group in Mexico writes about a girl who is the mother of one and in her second marriage at age 13. Another girl at age 22 looks like a 50-year old, is a mother of a small boy and her husband just left her for another woman.
Another friend works in Bangladesh, and she sees daily, how it is completely justified for a man to beat up his wife if the food is 2 minutes late or if he’s just had a bad day. Domestic violence is so pervasive in the society that even when people become Christians, they don’t understand why they should quit beating their wives. One believing man confessed to my friend after a Christian family conference, “I have been a bad man, a very bad man”. He had realized for the first time, that his wife is equal to him, in worth.
The world is full, full, of stories like these. Women truly suffer. And I can’t believe how self-absorbed, childish and petty we, as Western women can be. Let’s stop being ridicilous and do something for the women who honestly don’t believe they are worth a penny.